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honda522
10-10-2010, 09:08 PM
I'm sad..my friends broke up. He cheated on her. Now she is really sad. It really makes me sad, I shouldn't feel too sad but it feels like it happened to me. It does remind me of a time not to long ago.

Anyways I didn't know if anyone had any good advice for her.

We are going to a Halloween party towards the end of the month and I don't want her to be really sad by then.
Hayvern
10-10-2010, 10:00 PM
I'm sad..my friends broke up. He cheated on her. Now she is really sad. It really makes me sad, I shouldn't feel too sad but it feels like it happened to me. It does remind me of a time not to long ago.

Anyways I didn't know if anyone had any good advice for her.

We are going to a Halloween party towards the end of the month and I don't want her to be really sad by then.

It's hard man, I feel for her. There are no magic words one can say to help someone through this. The only good thing that comes out of this is that now she knows what she really had to begin with.
Connie Jo
10-11-2010, 01:33 PM
It's hard man, I feel for her. There are no magic words one can say to help someone through this. The only good thing that comes out of this is that now she knows what she really had to begin with.

Vern hit nail on head with hammer, and in at lot less words than I could have!! The only advise I would add...be there for her as her friend, offer emotional support, as it makes a world of difference when someone is suffering loss in any life aspect, but in her circumstances, attemtping to heal & move on to hopefully someone worthy one day as well. :)
honda522
10-12-2010, 03:51 PM
Vern hit nail on head with hammer, and in at lot less words than I could have!! The only advise I would add...be there for her as her friend, offer emotional support, as it makes a world of difference when someone is suffering loss in any life aspect, but in her circumstances, attemtping to heal & move on to hopefully someone worthy one day as well. :)
Well yesterday she was texting me alot and I was giving my opinions and some advise to her. She had said she still loved him, but he didn't love her. She asked what she should do and I responded with my advice and move on cause you can't force someone to love you. She then said she would leave me alone. I told her my opinions might hurt to hear but they are what I believe is right. She hasn't text me back since.