the old "eye for an eye" eh?
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the old "eye for an eye" eh?
I don't see that the same way. First off, let me say that I have never hit a woman. But I have been around those people and while the first offense is entirely his fault, (maybe the second.) but once a woman knows about that side of a guy, she should be responsible for her own decisions.
If a guy has multiple victims, then he should be served with some stiff sentences. Even first offenses should be harsher. (Perhaps punishment could be replaced/partnered with a serious attempt at reform, in first offense cases.)But when a woman allows herself to be abused and continues to abuse the legal service, then, at some point, she needs to start going to jail for it.
First offense and maybe the second.... Fine. We will punish him. But, if you keep him, knowing that he can't control his temper, then you have made the decision to get abused.
Lots of times the wife is threatened, or her family is threatened. A lot of those wives are so beaten mentally that they don't think they are worth anything because that's all they've been told over and over and even family members will tell the victim to suck it up and just not "upset" the man. Not all women are capable of standing tough and just leave with nothing and most of them have kids and no job, it's not as easy as just leaving.
I say wait until he's drunk and passed out, get a cast ironed skillet and take batting practice on his ***** ***, when he wakes up the next day tell him he went out and got his *** kicked.
I agree, to a certain extent, that women can be made to feel 'trapped', but if you throw him in prison, she is on her own anyway. So, she should have gotten out, on her own, without taking the extra beatings.
Usually, abusive men are the result of having been beaten as children. Yet we refuse to have any sympathy for their mental situation, and make excuses for the womans mental state, by using the excuse that "She feels threatened and scared.", or "She isn't CAPABLE of leaving and making it, on her own." No,no,no, we call him a "*****", or whatever insulting name that we can think of and we sympathize with her.
Well let me beat on a man for a while then maybe my sympathy will ooze through....any man that hits a woman is a "*****" wtf would you call him???? Right??? Sorry but I wouldn't sympathize with anyone doing the beating, but I guess you have a different view.