I think I give up. Freaking Women......
It's not you, it's her...and if she couldn't be more open & direct with you than what she was, "I'm very busy"...that's not a good indicator, and it likely wouldn't have been a lasting relationship.
It's hard to say based upon what little facts there are, but I'm guessing from her response to you, "I'm very busy"...she's a bit self centered...not a good personality trait to have. She could be playing head games too...many women are good at that crap and it reflects upon all women...good women take a bad rap because of so many bad ones out there.
Okay...this will be the very best advice you will ever receive related to women and clues with what to keep your eye out for with finding a good one!
Find one that appreciates the Chiefs as much as you do!! We female Chiefs fans are the best of the best, haha...just ask Tammie, Brenda, and all the other female members here...I know they'll agree with me! :D
There are many female Chiefs fans within your age range...they're all over Arrowhead! Likely hang out in popular KC sports bars too. I'm serious! If she likes football you're gonna have a great time and connect!
Another clue...find one that doesn't freak over a broken nail!...with hands that show she's not afraid to put in a honest day's work!
Last clue for now, haha...pay attention when you're around a girl as to how she responds when you need a bit of help. IE: if you drop something does she react with trying to help you pick it up? If the door on your side of the car is locked will she reach over and unlock it for you...or let you do it yourself with your key?
Little gestures like that say alot about a person...female or male for that matter, haha. :D
Well this girl kinda lead me to believe she was interested. She keeps talking to me and all. No one ever starts a conversation with me.
Maybe I might be intimating at first.
Well, if I had the all the game stuff...we lonely hearters could get together this Valentines Day and play Madden!! lol :D
Honda...on a more serious note...don't give up on finding love. It's worth sorting through the bad ones to find the good one...you'll find the love of your life...I promise! You're young, time is on your side. Time isn't on my side to find love again, but I'm okay with that, cause I was blessed with many years of love, and that's why I know it's worth it for you not to give up! :)
How did you approach her that makes you think you could be intimidating?
Well maybe she is very busy, stay open to being friends and fellow students, down the path of life, things change.
I just know many women who will use the "I'm busy" excuse...so I tend to be a bit narrowminded & judgmental when I hear it given...which is negative for me to do. I'm more open...such as if I was busy, I would explain why, rather than give a generic "I'm busy" without further explanation.
But today I asked her if she was doing anything for Valentines Day. She said she had plans to go to the movies with some buddies. I said thats too bad, I was going to see if you wanted to go do anything this weekend.
She said, I don't think so, I am pretty busy with school and work. She made it sound like it was on going, as in not just this weekend.