Originally Posted by
Connie Jo
That was my impression too, well, unless she's PMSing, hahaha. Although...I know some pretty unstable gals out there...unstable guys too though, in all fairness to the genders. :)
Friends convinced me to join match. com the first yr. I was single, 2009. I gave it a 90 day membership try, friends helped pick who I should or shouldn't consider. I had quite a few contacts, but only agreed to go on two dates. I couldn't wait for them to end!! People aren't in personality who they claim to be on dating sites, rather describe a fantasy of who they would like to be, or falsely convince themselves they are.
Most guys my age range on match. com had been active members for over a year up to 3 yrs.! That was my first clue I wasn't going to meet anyone I enjoyed spending time with in personality, haha.
I'm okay being single if it's meant to be at this stage of my life. My personality isn't one of which 'needs' to have someone. I'd rather be single than with the wrong person just not to be single. I made many sacrifices to 'free' myself from a very bad person. Shoot, there are 2 guys I know that would marry me in a hearbeat if I was interested...NOT! They're okay guys, just not for me.
This is what I tell concerned friends/family who for whatever reason think I need someone special in life..."I have someone special in my life, I'm dancing with God, he'll let the right person cut in if he comes along, if not, I know God is beside me, I'm never alone." :)
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