pbatrucker;178449 wrote:
You have to have romance to keep a relationship going. It would be boring without it.
My x hubby wasn’t raised in a manner of which appreciated romance, haha. He sorta saw it as being the woman’s job to bring in the romance, so I did, haha. He’ll be the first to tell ya I spoiled him.
It would’ve been nice to have him be romantic from time to time, & I envied women who had that from their men…but it wasn’t in his personality to initiate romance, & I was okay with that. For most of our marriage his positive qualities far outweighed any negative. That’s how I approach any relationship worthiness…friend, spouse, etc…as long as their positive traits outweigh the negative…I’m good. 