As far as being a dream girl…hahahaha.
I have many faults!!…here’s NINE I know irritated my x hubby. I don’t know what all men consider female faults, cause I was only with one from age 15 till a yr ago, lol…I only know what ‘he’ considered my female faults & complained about.
1) Fault: I would gripe with a comment when he left the toilet lid up, and I’d plop down without looking & my rear damn near hit water! LOL However…I learned a lesson from your post Dave! I was a hypocrite, cause there’s truth in that men don’t ask us to put the toilet lid up! What’s good for the goose is good for the gander! If I ever have another relationship…I’m gonna work on that fault! LOL
2) Fault: I love decorating for holidays! Valentine, Easter, 4th, Fall, & Christmas. I don’t know how other men are, but my x hubby complained saying I went overboard with decorating for holidays…not about money spent, cause I’m an expert at spending a buck & making it look like a million, haha…and also make many of my decorations myself. He always complained about the time I spent & trouble I went to decorating, saying it was a waste of time & effort.
That was a difference in how we were raised…my family went all out for holidays, his didn’t. His mom only had a small table top tree at Christmas. In my defense however, all our family and friends love coming to our house for holiday gatherings…because of the time I spend with decorating, cooking, & baking.
3) Another fault: I’m a firm believer in that too much food is better than not enough when entertaining. My X
complained I always made way too much food when entertaining & I’d send leftover’s home with guests, haha.
4) Fault: I wear sweats, or jeans, & a Chiefs t-shirt running basic household related errands & doing household chores. I’m not gonna be dressed up every hour & with make up & hair perfect. My x hubby DID CARE what I wore & looked like no matter what! He gripped at me if I didn’t look my best to even go to Walmart or Lowes. He wasn’t like that though until his personality changed…one of his 4-5 personalities can be very vain & arrogant about his appearance & others.
5)Fault: I get cranky on Thanksgiving and Christmas when he slept till noon, and 30 or so family members were coming at 2:00 for dinner and he wouldn’t lend a hand before noon.
6) Fault: I get irritated when entertaining and he hogs the pool table downstairs and won’t let me play too. My X thought my place should be with the girls, not with the guys playing pool, lol.
7)Fault: I don’t handle drunk driving well…if he’s drunk, I’m driving! If we’ve both had too much, we’re catching a ride, or calling a cab to take us to a hotel. No drunk driving. My X had a bad habit of believeing he was the only person on Earth who drove as good drunk as sober, NOT!! This was probably the biggest reason for any fights in my marriage.
Fault: I’ll climb on the back of a motorcycle…but do not enjoy going fast, and not on Interstates. I’m more of a country roads enjoying the scenery girl when it comes to motorcycle riding.
9) Fault: I don’t mind if he’s late once in a while for dinner, but please call and tell me, so I can start dinner later & not have to keep it warm, or worry he’s been hurt, haha.