I totally agree! I think both sexes are like that though. I think some of the reason is fear of rejection or conflict.
I don’t have experience with dating…like I said, I was with one guy from age 15 till a yr ago. I’ve went on a few dates with a few guys, have no clue what the guy thought…but I had no spark or interest further than a single date.
One date the guy bashed Kid Rock, knowing I was a fan…not a good idea! Another one bashed my Chiefs! BIGGER MISTAKE! One guy had no sense of humor, and that’s a MUST for my personality, haha.
He’s gonna have to enjoy music, going to an occasional concert…has to be a Chiefs fan, or willing to become one… has to have a sense of humor…has to enjoy at least one dog in the family…family & home have to be important…honest, loyal…doesn’t have to be a religious fanatic, but must have belief in God…& all those basic qualities, haha.
I could end up alone for the remainder of my life being too picky, huh? hahaha I’d rather be alone though than ‘settle’ & not be happy, nor feel respected & loved.
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