I have many faults!!…here’s NINE I know irritated my x hubby. I don’t know what all men consider female faults, cause I was only with one from age 15 till a yr ago, lol…I only know what ‘he’ considered my female faults & complained about.
1) Fault: I would gripe with a comment when he left the toilet lid up, and I’d plop down without looking & my rear damn near hit water! LOL However…I learned a lesson from your post Dave! I was a hypocrite, cause there’s truth in that men don’t ask us to put the toilet lid up! What’s good for the goose is good for the gander! If I ever have another relationship…I’m gonna work on that fault! LOL You can learn to over come great.
2) Fault: I love decorating for holidays! Valentine, Easter, 4th, Fall, & Christmas. I don’t know how other men are, but my x hubby complained saying I went overboard with decorating for holidays…not about money spent, cause I’m an expert at spending a buck & making it look like a million, haha…and also make many of my decorations myself. He always complained about the time I spent & trouble I went to decorating, saying it was a waste of time & effort.
That was a difference in how we were raised…my family went all out for holidays, his didn’t. His mom only had a small table top tree at Christmas. In my defense however, all our family and friends love coming to our house for holiday gatherings…because of the time I spend with decorating, cooking, & baking. You should see my wife she does the same I don’t care except when I have to drag the stuff out of the attic and pput it back up. LOL
3) Another fault: I’m a firm believer in that too much food is better than not enough when entertaining. My X
complained I always made way too much food when entertaining & I’d send leftover’s home with guests, haha. That is okay better to have guests go away with food that go away hungry.
4) Fault: I wear sweats, or jeans, & a Chiefs t-shirt running basic household related errands & doing household chores. I’m not gonna be dressed up every hour & with make up & hair perfect. My x hubby DID CARE what I wore & looked like no matter what! He gripped at me if I didn’t look my best to even go to Walmart or Lowes. He wasn’t like that though until his personality changed…one of his 4-5 personalities can be very vain & arrogant about his appearance & others. Again who cares why dress up for people who could care less and you don’t need to impress them, I am jeans and golf shirt person I hate getting dressed up.
5)Fault: I get cranky on Thanksgiving and Christmas when he slept till noon, and 30 or so family members were coming at 2:00 for dinner and he wouldn’t lend a hand before noon. As you should I don’t help alot but at least I am up and available to help if asked. LOL
6) Fault: I get irritated when entertaining and he hogs the pool table downstairs and won’t let me play too. My X thought my place should be with the girls, not with the guys playing pool, lol. My idea is to be where the girls are I would rather look at a women than another guys butt leaning over a pool table now if it is a woman’s butt or down a blouse bent over a pool table that is a different story again LOL.
7)Fault: I don’t handle drunk driving well…if he’s drunk, I’m driving! If we’ve both had too much, we’re catching a ride, or calling a cab to take us to a hotel. No drunk driving. My X had a bad habit of believeing he was the only person on Earth who drove as good drunk as sober, NOT!! This was probably the biggest reason for any fights in my marriage. All I have to say about that is amen to you.
Fault: I’ll climb on the back of a motorcycle…but do not enjoy going fast, and not on Interstates. I’m more of a country roads enjoying the scenery girl when it comes to motorcycle riding. Again I agree I don’t even like motorcycles fast or slow.
9) Fault: I don’t mind if he’s late once in a while for dinner, but please call and tell me, so I can start dinner later & not have to keep it warm, or worry he’s been hurt, haha. I had a hard time learning that one but after about 10 years it sunk in, if my wife is going to go to the time to cook me a meal at least I could let her know I am running late.
Does this fit your X?:ninerssuck: